A Persuasive Police Detective

A Persuasive Police Detective

I like TV detective shows. I like them so much that I am willing to ignore the many unrealistic details. CSI and its offshoots feature technology many big city police departments can only dream about. Even on the low-tech level, TV detectives find usable fingerprints...
Communication Caveat—Finger Pointing

Communication Caveat—Finger Pointing

Communication Caveat—Finger Pointing It is sometimes said that, “The best defense is a good offense.” Turning this around, what does it mean when a person goes on the offense in his communications by pointing the finger at others? He may be trying to divert attention...
Your Brain on (and off) Pings

Your Brain on (and off) Pings

Sensory overload and distraction not only cut against safe driving, as I wrote last time, but also against any kind of problem solving, including those kinds of problems I train people to solve, those that arise in connection with conflict resolution, negotiation,...
Bridges to Consensus for Kindle

Bridges to Consensus for Kindle

Just in time for your summer reading, my book Bridges to Consensus—in Congregations is now available in Kindle format. For those of you who have not already checked out this book, and those who haven’t looked at it for awhile, I’d like to tell you a little...