A few weeks ago, I heard from people I know personally–highly intelligent, educated and decent people–that the government was putting National Guard troops in place to quell riots and looting in connection with COVID19. As it happened, that same day, I had read from a fact checker about a hoax that sounded very similar to what I heard from my friends.
The story seemed unlikely. Yet, I couldn’t simply dismiss it. What if new information had become available after the fact checkers wrote their email? On the outside chance that this might be true, should I advise other friends? But even if it were true, what could any of us do about it but worry? And spreading the story could cause useless anxiety, even panic.
Later that day, the Mayor of Houston, along with the Chief of Police, held a news conference exposing this story as a hoax started via social media. The police chief emphasized that law enforcement organizations from the federal government on down had conclusive proof that, in the past, hostile foreign governments had started other hoaxes intended to frighten Americans and/or create controversy among us. He gave two examples: 1.That the Obama administration had been planning to confiscate all privately owned firearms; 2. That they (whoever “they” were) meant to tear down a huge statue of Sam Houston, the first president of the Republic of Texas, on interstate 45.
Because of the way the original social media post was worded and disseminated, the Chief thought it seemed very much like the sorts of posts that hostile foreign governments had used in the past. But he declared that, whether domestic or foreign, organization or individual, the perpetrator of this hoax would be found.
Both the Mayor and the Chief pleaded with people not to take things they see on social media at face value, but rather, seek information from reliable official sources.
The fact checker I mentioned above always gives the sources of any statements they check out. More and more often, since the beginning of COVID-19, the source is given as “viral image” or “viral post.”
Social media are neither reliable nor official sources of news.
Yet, a few years ago, I read, to my horror, that, in a survey about where people get news, a depressingly large number replied, “social media.” As a small business owner, I’d be foolish not to have some social media presence. Not to do so would be as if, thirty years ago, I were not using the Internet. But I use only two social media and spend as little time on them as possible.
Quite apart from the truth or falsehood of an allegation, there are other reasons to limit social media time. Facebook, for example, is awash in verbal hand wringing, what I call “ain’t-it-awful” talk. People aren’t telling friends anything they didn’t already know. All they do is wind people up, keep them focused on negatives, keep their emotions churned up. In other words, they’re doing the same things that hostile foreign governments try to do by posting hoaxes.
And I’m not just referring to people whose political views differ from mine. As I’ve written before, I believe there are reasons, although they are just now being discovered, why we attract what we focus on, whether positive or negative.[See note 1 below] So I resent like-minded people who post ain’t-it-awful talk, especially since they have nothing to lose by not singing to the choir an old song they could all sing in their sleep. When an election doesn’t go the way I’d like, I can’t help feeling that these like-minded people might have contributed to the very thing they fear and we all wanted to avoid.
Stress evolved for dealing with immediate emergencies, like saving oneself from a sabertooth cat. A constant undercurrent of stress is unhealthy. Our bodies aren’t designed to handle that. And by causing excessive, useless stress, verbal hand wringers actually take years off of one another’s lives.
Question anything you hear from another individual unless you know their source.
Not everything that starts on social media stays on social media. People repeat what they read on social media to others by word of mouth. Conversely, things that begin by word of mouth end up going viral on social media.
The more something frightens you, the more important it is to try to trace it to its original source before passing it along to anyone else or allowing yourself to stew over it.
Limit your time on social media.
Even better, why not swear off social media during COVID-19, or at least limit how much time you spend and what you do there? I limit my social media actions to things related to my business and to positive things.
Also, don’t interact with ain’t-it-awful posts. A social medium, such as Facebook, tries to send you more of what their computers think you want. So, when you like or comment on a post, you will get more posts about that subject matter.
When you read a frightening post, ask yourself: If this were true, what would I do now that I’m not already doing? If your answer is, “Nothing,” then you’re doing more harm than good to keep reading verbal hand wringing and verbally wringing your own hands in turn.
Instead, take every opportunity to experience, talk and think about positive things. If you must post on social media, post something positive. I wrote about some such things in my last post, “Coping with Corona.” Readers and I continually add comments to “Coping with Corona” with additional reasons for hope and upbeat things to do. So, if you haven’t read the previous post yet, please do. And if you have read it, go back to it every few days and scroll down to comments.
Next time: “More Corona Misinformation–There’s Science, and Then There’s…”
 See my series on “Politics and the Law of Attraction,” Part I and Part 2.
I couldn’t have said it better myself, Margaret. Thank you. I’ve been getting messages on Social Media that are absurd…both ways…about what’s going on. One friend in particular is making a fool out of herself with these opinion pieces, pushing them off as facts. I’m real good at minding my own business, and I answer her looney messages with a thumbs-up to keep her from attacking…Like all of us, I am looking forward to the end of this ordeal, but in the meantime I’m playing it safe and staying out of the political, social and emotional hysteria. It will soon pass. Best, JB
I am glad you found it validating and heartening. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Today I heard from an older relative what a person told him. That was, that Bill Gates was to blame for it all! Oh man!!!
Every time I think I’ve heard the most ridiculous thing,… I
Someone I know told me that the reason the number of virus deaths was so high was because the government was paying a bounty to hospitals for virus deaths. As a consequence the hospitals were attributing deaths of all kinds to the virus to make more money. How’s that?
Thank you for sharing that, Grace. Every time I think I’ve seen the most bizarre COVID story, something even more bizarre shows up. If it weren’t so serious, it would be almost comical.
I concur with your comments in this article. Yes, it is important to note NOT to spend excessive time on social media. I have learned not to engage in even sharing with others as a means to avoid nasty attacks which ultimately will end up in adverse effects to my being. I do believe that one must be kept informed but find it difficult to accept the discrepancies found in what is said and done by those in power. However, I do value and rely on facts outlined by those who are experts in the field – thus overlooking some of the opinions of social media. Thank you Margaret for your valuable input. Regards, Novemi
Thank you Novemi. Nothing pleases me more than knowing someone found my writing helpful. I intend to write more next time about how to tell if something is really supported by science. Since Facebook doesn’t send everything we post to all our FB friends, you might like to subscribe directly to the blog. You’ll get a brief email notice whenever I post a new blog article. You can unsubscribe at any time. You will find the simple subscription form in the right hand column of every page of my website, including those pages with blog posts.
Well put Margaret! The conflict and chaos created by misinformation is damaging the social fabric of our country. It breaks my heart to see the anger and mistrust that has been created.
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have the freedom to openly discuss ideas and beliefs without having to worry offending each other?
Thanks for your efforts!